Guest Post: Bridging the Gap

Fitness Goal Tips For Those With Sight Loss

Originally written/published March 22, 2015 by Lisa Salinger | BlindAlive

Yellow & Chrome Analog Alarm Clock In a previous post, I talked about the importance of small changes that yield big results over time. If your goal is to adopt a more active lifestyle, this isn’t too difficult, at least in theory. You set aside a specific time, and because it will take a little while to get the task done, it is not easily forgotten.

I’d like to talk instead about a different kind of habit. What if you want to remember to tighten your abs or glutes more consistently, or you’d like to correct poor posture. This may be harder than it sounds. You can’t really schedule it on a calendar, because you will want to remind yourself to do this several times a day — many more times than the average person checks a daily schedule. There’s a two-part approach that may help.

Part one is to change something in your environment.

As a blind person, I don’t find that strategically placed notes help. This is often suggested as a great way to be reminded of something on a more or less consistent basis. Since I can’t see those notes, I find that essentially making myself the figurative notepad can bridge the all-important gap between intentions and actions.

This past week, I decided I wanted to make a concerted effort to tighten my abdominal muscles and sit or stand straight and tall, so I put on a ring. I normally wear very few bracelets or rings, preferring to keep my hands free for typing and other tasks. Wearing the ring felt unfamiliar. As a result, every time my attention was drawn to it, I had a reminder of my goals.

Can you guess what happened? For the first day, I found myself tightening muscles and correcting my posture several times. On the second day, I was making far fewer corrections. I would like to say that I had achieved such success that the habit was firmly entrenched after just one day. Unfortunately, I had not improved noticeably, but I had become used to wearing that ring.

This leads me to the second key factor in building small habits — vary the message.

I have talked to people who write themselves notes, and before long, they find that they either need to change the wording of the note, or put it somewhere else. For me, this could mean putting that ring on my other hand, or on a different finger.

It could mean substituting that ring for a bracelet, or maybe changing my watch to my non-dominant hand. If you don’t wear a watch, or you quickly run out of options, a rubber band around your wrist will serve the same purpose. If you run out of tactile cues, there are always audio, smell or taste, environmental, time-related, or possibly visual cues. If you have the radio or TV on in the background, you can use commercials as your reminders.

Do you live or work within hearing range of church bells? If not, you could set a clock to chime at regular intervals. The possibilities are endless. Just remember to have a clear picture in your mind of what you want to improve, and change your reminders daily for best results.

What are some reminders that have worked for you? Is there a small habit you’ve conquered with this method, or maybe you’re going to implement it. In any case, we’d love to hear your comments.

Published by Stephanae

👩🏾‍🦯 | INTJ | HSP | Collector of knowledge | Alpaca Fanatic “If I stop to kick every barking dog, I am not going to get where I'm going.” ~Jackie Joyner-Kersee Hi, I'm Steph! I'm a highly sensitive proud introvert and a recovering people-pleaser. These traits or quirks used to bother me because I always felt out of place until I began a recent process of self-acceptance. While I'm still a work in progress, I view my quirks as my superpowers and am grateful that they contribute to who I am today.

12 thoughts on “Guest Post: Bridging the Gap

  1. Thank you once again. I’ll pass your message on to Lisa 🙂 I remember when I was little how it seemed all the adults in my life constantly reminded me to sit up straight.

  2. I do wall squats. I keep my head and shoulders against the the wall; pull my navel into my spine and slide down wall to high sitting position. I hold for count of 5 and do 30 times. This helps my posture. Maybe not flat abs.
    Sherri Rodgers

  3. Hey Lynne, I can barely remember my name these days, pathetic I know. Years ago I tried switching the wrist I used to wear my watch on and I felt weird and it ended up being a distraction rather than a reminder hahaha. Thank you for stopping by and commenting. 🙂

  4. Hey Steph. This is such an interesting post. My hubby always puts his watch on his opposite wrist, and then he generally thinks and remembers, whatever it needed to be. I, write notes for myself but often that doesn’t even work haha. I really need to get my act together ! But good on you with the abs thing, and better posture, we all need that, especially as we are always in front of the computer. xxx

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